i'm happy being a single but i do entertain suitors (as if???) hahaha. nah, just kidding. i'll probably have a serious boyfriend when i reach 25 or so, since my parents are both really strick; my course is really EXPENSIVE (5,000+/month excluding my allowance, books and other requirements); i still have dreams( becoming rich/ almost rich); i'm still looking for that smart, religious, responsible and traditional man (and not a lustful guy full of pretenses); i'm still too naive to handle such relationship (i even act childishly at school); i don't even know how to cook (i'm the worst cook you'll ever know); i had a trauma on guys based on someone's experience... etc. Lol. I've got a lot of things to do, errands to finish and missions to accomplish. i don't wanna hurt someone and i don't wanna hurt myself either. i don't want anyone to be a nuisance to my dreams and i don't want to wreck anyones dream just because of me. They could be my best friends and who knows, that best friend could actually make a good lover, SOMEDAY! you will only need to wait... wait... wait... haha! We don't have to hurry... Boyfriend/girlfriend stuff shouldn't be rushed, there's plenty of 'em. And besides, that's what mom and dad taught me... i was totally brain-washed by them. Everyday, every hour, almost every sec, they reprimand us about the consequences when you fall in love and have a boyfriend. When you fall for those sugar-coated lines, the girl gets completely mesmerized by the guy, she'll do anything and give everything to him, even her heart and soul (even virginity :p). And when it reaches to that point, the girl gets preggy, guy escapes for his responsibilities; girl gets hurt and runs back to her real family; family comforts her and will be the one who will raise and support the child. Or if not, even if you two are both financially stable, that does not necessarily mean that you're going to live life harmoniously... you should be responsible, loving, caring, undertanding enough. Easy to say you have it but hard to do. I know it sounds funny to think soooo pesimistic but it is true!